Put a little Variety into your Relationship
Face it guys, all relationships (marriages or otherwise) could use a little variety to spice things up, right?
I’m not talking about going outside of your marriage, however. There’s a much better way to spark things up and keep the fires burning.
What you need to do is experiment with different kinds of sex.
Don’t do the same thing all the time because it gets boring, both for you and your lady. Learn about different techniques, different moods, and different types of love-making.
Quickies for a Fast Fix
Everyone loves a quickie once in awhile. They are exciting at times, especially if you have a very limited amount of time but feel the need to get laid.
Lunchtime quickies are the best.
You and your lover can meet up somewhere (hopefully a private place) and have at it for a few minutes. If you play your cards right, you will use the phone (ahead of time) to get her juices going so that, by the time you get to her, she will be begging for it.
If you require sex more often than she does (or vice versa), quickies can solve the problem. Although she may like long love-making sessions, you probably don’t care that much and a quickie will satisfy you if she isn’t in the mood.
Don’t get to the point, though, where you depend on quickies too often. Used too frequently, they can really damage a relationship because they don’t allow enough time for real intimacy. Use them sparingly but don’t neglect them altogether because they can add spice to your life.
Loving, Comfort Sex is Essential to a Good Relationship
Loving, comfort sex is one of the greatest advantages of a long-term, committed relationship.
It is best enjoyed by people who know and love their partner’s bodies. I am talking about the sex that allows you to spend quality time with your long-term lover
This type of sex builds trust, heightens love, and increases intimacy. It is enjoyed by two people who want to concentrate more on quality than quantity and is all about that one-on-one bond.
Beware, though, that too much comfort sex can lead to boredom.
To avoid this, switch things up from time to time. Take her on the kitchen table, for instance, instead of the bed. Try cooking her a romantic dinner and serve it in front of the fireplace. Afterwards, make love on the floor right where you are.
Mind-blowing Sex Adds Spice
Now, be prepared for what will happen once you take her on the kitchen table (or the bathroom counter). That quickly leads us right into mind-blowing sex, which is the most fun type of all. There’s something about switching things up that makes both of you explode with excitement.
Mind-blowing sex is very important.
Sometimes it’s the result of switching things up and sometimes it just happens with no preplanning.
It could be the result of a new position you decided to try but no matter what the cause, it’s dynamic and very important to your relationship.
When things get boring, mind-blowing sex is always a good remedy.
All types of sex are important to a good, long-term relationship.
Comfort sex is probably going to be the mainstay but the relationship will grow if you inject a few quickies and some mind-blowing escapades in there somewhere. Use a mixture of techniques to make your relationship spectacular.
